One of the greatest myths in the medical world is that doctors need to “put their lives on hold” in order to make a legitimate attempt at medical specialist exams. So many junior doctors are told that unfortunately, families, friends and hobbies all need to be put on hold because preparing for primary or fellowship exams requires their undivided attention.
This kind of approach often leaves doctors in a disconnected and unfulfilled state that can be very counterproductive. Such a state is not helpful in exam preparation (or in general life) and some doctors find themselves sinking into a depressive state because they have diligently committed to this approach.
I discourage doctors from “putting their lives on hold” when preparing for exams. Preparing for medical specialty exams requires commitment to study, but it also requires a healthy balance of study with life and work. I believe that this balanced approach is best achieved when it is tailored to the individual and refreshingly, most doctors find this realignment of their priorities beneficial and rewarding.